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Frequently Asked Questions

Why do you do what you do?   ​


Because I believe what I have to offer is valuable and needed. Because I would like to do my small part in offering people a chance to escape a world devoid of sensual delights. Because when it comes to intimacy and romance, there's always something new to learn and opportunities to grow. Because I love meeting all sorts of people and hearing everybody's story. Because I value being someone's vehicle for self care and self discovery. Because as corny as it sounds, I believe everyone is beautiful and it's an honor to revel in that beauty. Because what I offer is both a deep seeded need and a hedonistic luxury. Because I am proud to assert my place in the world as an unapologetic, sensual woman. Because I simply can't imagine doing anything else.




Are your courses disability friendly?


They most certainly are. All I ask is that you inform me of your disability and/or limitations as best you can so we can decide on the best arrangements for you and your specific needs. This includes disabilities that may not be visible to the naked eye, such as fibromyalgia or being on the autism spectrum.




Do you take on students who are...?


I take on many different types of students who are 21 and older. Aspects of your selfhood such as race, ethnicity, nationality, gender expression and body size will never be a barrier for entry into one of my courses. What will be however is rudeness, crassness and vulgarity.




So what are your courses like anyway?


It's hard to summarize a course succinctly as each one is tailored to fit each individual student or students. In a general sense, we will cover the essentials of romance, flirtation, sensuality and connection. And because this is one on one tutoring, you will find that in many ways, it feels much like meeting a long lost friend or lover! Conversation will be free flowing, and the general attitude will be relaxed, yet passionate. At many times, it may not seem like you are being taught at all. My courses are subtle like that ;)




So will you do XYZ?


While I understand that you may have certain favorite subjects, I always think it's best for students to approach my courses with an open mind and a willingness to enjoy the experience, as opposed to coming to me with a checklist of topics that must be covered. So while you are welcome to tell me your subjects of particular interest upon successful screening, if a positive learning experience is contigent upon going through a litany of strung together letters, I am likely not the intimacy tutor for you.




What if I'm nervous or feeling unsure about taking a course?


I totally get it! You want to look before you leap, as it were. Luckily, I offer phone and video chat consultations starting at $50 for 30 minutes or 15 minutes, respectively. While full screening is not necessary for these, my typical screening protocol will apply should you chose to move forward with an in person course.




What do you think everyone should know about romance and sensuality?


The devil is in the details. In our modern deadline and outcome driven, instant gratification obsessed culture, we have lost sight of the beauty of the extraordinary and unique details of sensuality. The most precious and wonderful moments unfold when we stop and fully absorb what's happening in the moment. The delicate stroke of a lover's cheek against yours. The elegant honesty of eye contact. Catching a whiff of your lover's hair as they throw their head back in pleasure. These are not mere byproducts of intimacy, but intimacy itself.




Do you allow reviews?


I allow for tasteful reviews exclusively on Private Delights. I consider reviews left on any other forum or ones with explicit themes to be fraudulent and therefore I will never confirm, deny or acknowledge them or their contents in any capacity.




Do you offer courses with other instructors?


Yes! I love offering courses with many of my esteemed colleauges! Some of my favoirte co-instructors include Erin Black, Ava Adore, Roxanne Dupri and Clover! I do have other members of my faculty too, so feel free to inquire! Please keep in mind that I do ask for rate parity for all team taught courses, so kindly match the higher rate for each party.