Frequently asked questions

The Inexperienced

Lack of experience in the realms of romance and intimacy are nothing to be ashamed of, but society can sure make people feel that way and the pressure to perform like a seasoned Casanova can put the zap on anyone's confidence. I am always happy to take on students with little to no experience and offer compassionate, non judgmental guidance as we take this journey together! Calling myself an intimacy tutor is not simply a metaphor; I take the role of teacher and mentor literally and seriously...all with a sense of fun and whimsy!

The Self Conscious

I am no stranger to struggles with body image and self esteem. I know how difficult the journey to self acceptance can be. Rest assured though, when I say I am pansexual, I mean that in every sense of the word. Not only am I attracted to people of all different gender expressions but I am also attracted to all different shapes and sizes too. Let me offer you a respite from a world full of body shaming, unrealistic standards and unsolicited health advice so we can celebrate all the things that make you amazing and sexy together!

The Heartbroken

As someone who made the incredibly difficult decision to break off her engagement, I know first hand how hard breakups and divorces can be. I also know the struggle of wanting to get back into the dating scene, yet not wanting to get your heart wounded any more than it has been. Taking a course with me offers the best of both worlds: the intimacy and connection you've been longing for without fear of rejection and disappointment.


I am 100% disability friendly. I am always happy to work with you and your particular issues, whether they can be visible by the naked eye or not. Traditional dating can be incredibly difficult for anyone to navigate. Combine that with the ableism that is often present, particularly in online dating, and it can be a downright demoralizing experience. You deserve intimacy and connection, and I am happy to offer that space for you.

Longer Courses

While I’d be thrilled and delighted to spend any amount of time with you, I do specialize in courses that are 3+ hours in length and my rates are pointedly structured to reflect that. I love being able to let our time together unfold organically. My p[articular brand of companionship and tutoring lends itself beautifully to free flowing conversation, flirtation and anticipation, and truly irreplacable intimate moments.


It’s a special joy for me to be the fabled unicorn to the adventurous couple! Whether you are just beginning to open your relationship or have been exploring your fantasies together for years, I love nothing more than to be that very special guest star and conduit for your connection.

Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes

They say you’re only as good as the company you keep. I have to say that has definitely been my experience! I have so many amazing friends around the country that I love to teach with! All you have to do is ask!


As you may or may not know, I am quite the squirter and I would be more than happy to teach you all about the delightful world of female ejaculation. Rain poncho not required! Lessons on squirting usually are included in my courses, unless otherwise requested.