Question 1

Where are you based?

Accepted Answer

As of November 2024, I have permanently relocated back to my hometown of Chicago IL from Western North Carolina due to Hurricane Helene. However, I still travel quite a bit and you can often find me touring throughout the US and even internationally from time to time!

Question 2

I'm not in the Chicagoland area. How can we meet?

Accepted Answer

Sometimes you may find me touring your town, so do make sure to check my tour schedule to see if I have plans to visit where you are! If you don't see you town on my roster, or timing doesn't work in our favor, I am more than happy to discuss a Fly/Drive Me To You (here) or a bespoke travel date (here)

Question 3

I have limited or no experience with intimacy. Will you see me?

Accepted Answer

You betcha! Few things bring me greater joy than spending time with those who have limited to no experience and helping them build confidence in themselves and their skills. Newbies to the demimonde are always welcome!

Question 4

Do you see couples?

Accepted Answer

I love spending time with couples! Please keep in mind that both parties will need to be screened and a phone or video consultation will be required for the three of us, just to make sure we're all on the same page.

Question 5

Are you disability friendly?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely! I am more than happy to see folks with mobility limitations, chronic pain and/or neurodivergences. I simply ask that you inform me upon screening so we can make the best arrangements possible for both of us (for example: if wheelchair accessibility will be required for incall)

Question 6

Are you kink/fetish friendly?

Accepted Answer

I consider myself to be a soft dominant, meaning that I naturally gravitate towards the sensual, softer side of kink and power exchange. Things like tease and denial, role play, light bondage, sensory deprivation, body worship, prostate exploration and foot fetishes are definitely right up my alley! Please note that I do not consider myself to be a Mistress, Domina or Goddess and do not wish to be addressed as such.

Question 7

What will you wear to our date? May I make a wardrobe request?

Accepted Answer

I always dress in a way that is suited to our date. For example, for a casual lunch date, I may wear a tee shirt and jeans with a blazer. For a multicourse tasting menu dinner at a Michelin star restaurant, I may wear a cocktail dress with heels. My style has been described as feminine, polished, sophisticated yet laid back, and always discreet.General wardrobe requests are OK. Something like "I love yoga pants" or "black lingerie is my favorite" is appropriate and easy for me to accommodate. However, if you're looking for something very specific, it may or may not be possible and if it is an additional fee may apply dependent on the request. Do keep in mind too that when touring, I typically don't bring my entire wardrobe with me so it will likely be harder to accommodate specific requests unless they're made in advance. I will not wear anything to our date that will cause undue attention to either one of us or is inappropriate for the weather (in other words, please don't ask me to wear my thigh high boots to a cocktail date in the middle of July or a sundress and sandals to a dinner in the middle of a snowstorm).

Question 8

Do you see clients who are (insert race/nationality/age/gender/body type here)?

Accepted Answer

I see all sorts of clients who are 21+. I identify as pansexual, meaning that I am genuinely attracted to people of all backgrounds, races, shapes, sizes and gender expressions. Things like your race, nationality, gender expression, weight or body type will never be a barrier to entry. Solo women, trans and non binary folks are always gladly welcomed!

Question 9

I'd like to get to know you a bit before we meet. Any suggestions?

Accepted Answer

Following me on social media is a good place to start! You can find me on X/Twitter, Bluesky and Instagram. But if you'd like something a bit more one on one, I offer both phone and video consultations as a way for us to have an open conversation to get to know one another and go over your questions, thoughts and ideas for our time together.

Question 10

Do you offer duos, trios, etc?

Accepted Answer

The more the merrier! I have several friends in the industry who I absolutely adore. Upon successful screening, I will send you my password protected Friends & Lovers page. I can always make recommendations based on your interests and who I think you'd best click with. If you have a specific provider in mind, you're welcome to inquire. However please be advised that I typically stick with providers I have personally met to ensure genuine chemistry, so I cannot guarantee my availability to meet somebody who is not on that list.

Question 11

May I bring you a gift?

Accepted Answer

How sweet of you to ask! While you are certainly not obligated to bring a gift, a thoughtful gift always makes me weak in the knees! If you're looking for a gift that is guaranteed to make my heart skip a beat, kindly visit this page to learn all about my favorite things, or check out my wishlist on Marigold!

Question 12

I contacted you, but I haven't received a reply. What gives?

Accepted Answer

If you've already checked your spam folder and did not find my reply there, there may be a couple other issues afoot. When I am touring or traveling my response time can sometimes be a little longer. Sometimes I have personal things to attend to that may delay my ability to respond. I do not have an assistant, so it's just you and me talking. Ergo, sometimes communication can be delayed (though I always do my best to avoid that). And sometimes it's just a matter of good old fashioned technological SNAFU. If it's been over 48 hours, feel free to circle back with me. Please do keep in mind though that if your inquiry contained any vulgar language, acronyms or incomplete screening information, you will not receive a reply.

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